I generally like
@Ratch 's explanation, however I have a small quibble:
The electrolyte between the plates does not allow charge to pass through the capacitor
I think you must have meant the
dielectric between the plates.
In an electrolytic capacitor, the
electrolyte does allow charge to pass through the electrolyte, and in fact the electrolyte serves as the cathode or negative terminal of the capacitor. But said charge motion is stopped by the very thin
dielectric film (aluminum oxide for aluminum electrolytic capacitors) that forms on the aluminum foil serving as the anode or positive terminal of the capacitor. The
electrolyte is the reason that electrolytic capacitors have a polarity. Reversing the polarity applied to an electrolytic capacitor has the effect of removing the
dielectric film by electrolysis, thus shorting the capacitor.
As
@Ratch mentioned, the key to understanding capacitance (and inductance) is understanding reactance. Reactance is a property associated with the lossless storage of electrical energy, either in an electrical field for capacitors or in a magnetic field for inductors. Capacitive reactance subtracts algebraically from inductive reactance if a capacitor is connected in series with an inductor. For any pair of capacitor and inductor connected in series there will be a frequency where the series reactance is zero, a condition called series resonance. Not quite so obviously, for any pair of capacitor and inductor connected in parallel there will be a frequency where the parallel reactance approaches infinity. In both cases, this occurs when the magnitude of the capacitive reactance is equal to the magnitude of the inductive reactance without regard to "sign" of the magnitude.
Although reactance is measured in ohms, it is non-dissipative: reactive current does not dissipate energy or consume power. The reactance of a capacitor is XC = 1/ (2 π f C), where f is in hertz, C is in farads, and XC is in ohms. The reactance of an inductor is XL = (2 π f L), where f is in hertz, L is in henries, and XL is in ohms. Note that these equations have no meaning at DC because reactance is only defined for sinusoidal AC waveforms. However, the implication is that XC approaches infinity as the frequency approaches zero, and that XL approaches zero as the frequency approaches zero. For any given pair of inductance and capacitance there is always a frequency greater than zero and less than infinity where |XC| = |XL| and that frequency is called the resonant frequency. It is this property of reactance that allows tuned band-pass circuits, peaking circuits (a narrow band-pass filter), and notch filters (a narrow band-reject filter) to be constructed from L and C components. Such circuits can also be constructed in other ways, but generally this requires active components such as op-amps which limit the range of frequencies that can be accommodated.
What characteristic of the capacitor makes it such that it passes mostly high frequencies?
The reactance of a capacitor decreases as the frequency increases. This is a smooth hyperbolic function whose asymptotes are zero at infinite frequency and infinity at zero frequency. Plug in some numbers to the capacitive reactance equation above and you will see why higher frequencies are impeded with less capacitive reactance than lower frequencies. OTOH, the reactance of an inductor is a linear function of frequency so higher frequencies are impeded with more inductive reactance than lower frequencies. However, it is guaranteed that these two functions will intersect somewhere between zero frequency and infinite frequency for any arbitrary values of capacitance and inductance, said intersection occurring at resonance. Now, as to
why capacitors and inductors behave this way... go back and read
@Ratch 's explanation for perhaps a qualitative understanding. A quantitative understanding requires considerable effort, but it all boils down to the four Maxwell's Equations, which one of my college professors told me were handed down to James Clerk Maxwell by God. Of course this was at a private Catholic university, so there may have been some prejudice on his part, but I have no other explanation for why the Universe is put together and works the way it does. So, good luck with Electronics for Dummies and I hope you graduate to something a bit more in depth. Brush up on your math and physics; it does get easier (and fascinating too) after some basic concepts are nailed down.
I hope this helps!
Hop