If each LED uses 3.2V then the resistor has 4.5V - 3.2V= 1.3V across it and the total current is 1.3V/20 ohms= 65mA. with 16 LEDs in parallel then each LED uses 65mA/16= 4.1mA.
If the LEDs are 1.9V red LEDs then the resistor has 4.5V - 1.9V= 2.6V across it, the total current is 2.6V/20 ohms=...