I'm wondering if theres a way to make them brighter (looking through a camera) or if I'm stuck with these dull purple lights.
Another option is to get IR LEDs that are only just below the visible red end of the spectrum.
then it really is determined by the characteristics of the IR filter on the camera
with some of the older cameras, the IR filter plate could be peeled off the CCD/CMOS sensor. on others it couldn't.
really your first step should be to get a security type camera that's already designed to receive IR light
cheers
Dave