ArFa,
I don't know your background, but measuring 3-phase power can be more than a little tricky, especially if the load isn't balanced and/or is highly reactive. Most businesses that use 3-phase power recognize the need for professional engineering help in load management and either contract periodic reviews or hire a full time engineer for the purpose. Harald's advice is good; I am not suggesting you can't DIY, but you need to have a firm grasp on the mathematics of what you are measuring before you worry about how to measure it.
Fish