Hi Jim,
Reminds me of a funny situation in our family... Hispanic son-in-law
can't speak Spanish, because his immigrant parents thought being
American meant speaking English (somewhat different from today, eh?).
Sometimes it was less funny than that. A neighbor told me that they were
kind of forced not to speak Spanish at school. So now he can't speak it
much anymore. I am against bilingual education the way our public
schools propose it, not just because the US has chosen English as the
official language many moons ago. But also for the sake of immigrant
kids since that quickly makes them 2nd class in business because they
may not master technical English well enough.
But my oldest son, the programmer, speaks Spanish (Mexican-style) and
Portuguese, both learned from the street, Spanish from working laying
sprinkler systems in Tucson while attending U of A, Portuguese then
rapidly learned from multiple business trips to brazil.
I hope he keeps it up by socializing with native speakers. Otherwise
these skills vanish over the years. This happened to me with Dutch.
Funny thing is, after a few beers it's all back. Well, maybe not anymore
because five years have passed since that trip.
It can also work the other way around. I grew up speaking German. A few
months back we had visitors from there and the second night they asked
me to say our evening prayer in German so they could understand. Errr,
ahhhm, ahem, well.... boy has that become rocky.
Regards, Joerg