Robert said:
Thanks. They appear to be talking about sexual abuse, not physical abuse
such as spanking.
yeah, "sexually abused" was a dead giveaway. I thought the correlation
was interesting, and quite marked.
And of course the whole argument about physically disciplining children
hinges on what, exactly, constitutes physical abuse. Anti-smacking
advocates tend to highlight horrendous child abuse (usually murder)
cases to make their point that smacking should be banned. They seem to
forget that murder already is, and I have yet to see a kid murdered by
smacking. OTOH I have witnessed plenty of stupid parents hitting their
kids because they cant control themselves. Most common scenario:
mum at a cafe having lunch/coffee with friends, sprogs abound. Adults
talking, kid comes up and says "mum, mum..." mum ignores kid for 5
minutes or so, then screams at kid to be quiet, and gives kid a wallop.
The problem with legislating against things not because they are
inherently bad but because stupid people misuse them, is that it
unnecessarily deprives non-stupid people of options. For example many
stupid people drive drunk & maim others (the US kills what, about 17
9/11's worth of people every year in car crashes - 50,000 or so), so
alcohol should be illegal. Hey, come to think of it, what about
firearms.....surely the number of gun deaths far, far outweighs spanking
deaths...
Cheers
Terry