That entirely depends on the phase of the moon, lol. Quite a bit also depends on your skill with the tool.
What are you soldering/desoldering tomorrow morning?
I went most of my life with a bog standard Weller 40 Watt stick for almost everything PCB including early surface mount, and carry a small open flame pencil butane for field work like automotive wire connections.
About 20 years ago a kid told me I'd be way happier with a proper temperature controlled station. I didn't really get it, as I didn't feel like I needed to be any happier, but meh .. I ponied $200 bucks and have never regretted it on the bench .. But I could have lived without one. I rarely ever adjust the temp.
Cute story .. I was sharing a shop a few years back with a pair of younger mechanics. Good lads, couple of hundred grand in Snap-On kit, the works, but still a bit moist if you know what I mean. They had a salt belt Crown Victoria in one day for a front wheel bearing replacement. I watched them struggle for nearly 2 hours with this and that bit from the drawers, sweating, cursing, air hammer, etc. And they always teased me a bit about not having a big roller cabinet full of money. Around lunch they let the pride go and asked the old cooter what would he (I) do .. I grabbed two bolts, two washers, and two nuts .. popped out two wheel studs, and used the bolts and nuts behind the flange to jack out the bearing in a few minutes with one combo wrench. They stopped teasing me.
My station has IR preheat and air along with the iron .. and when I need that, I need that. But most of what I do can be done with ye olde 40W stick.
Now desoldering is a book of it's own. Still all about the proper application of heat, but what are you doing with it?
Is this a repair with a known bad component on a PCB? Then the goal is to remove the part and preserve the board. I usually just cut the part off with snips, and then remove the legs. I've developed about a thousand techniques depending on the component and board material. Sometimes I use braid (desolder wick), sometimes I blow a hole out while heating with compressed air or a can of "dust off". I also have an iron with a squeezy bulb that does the same thing.
If I'm salvaging components and don't care about the board, I break out the propane plumbing torch.
I've seen guys do reflow in a toaster oven, and I've seen foot long gas heated irons that looked like medieval torture weapons. Indeed I have a 300W electric iron with a half inch diameter chisel tip myself. Although admittedly, never found a use for it.
In short, there is no best tool for all jobs, but you can get yourself out of a jamb with a ciggy lighter.
Personal comfort is also a real thing here. I've been a guest in shops and absolutely hated their kit ..wasn't mine, didn't feel right, and ugly cold booger solders.
I'm old school hard and don't believe that you can just spend the right amount of money on kit and suddenly become great.
Now I've evolved some .. I remember having a file at hand, re-tinning every 5 minutes, Going through an iron every few months .. I'm not certain what the tip of my station is made of .. but I think they made Wolverine out of it.
And a damp cloth has been replaced with a dish scrubby looking thing and a pot of rosin.
So I suppose you're looking for more of an answer than anecdotes? Ok, although I'm not affiliated, I'll give thumbs to my Chinese knock off "yihua" YH853AAA station .. I like the way the stick feels in my hand, and it's done duty for a very long time. The cord to the mother ship could use another foot. But that said, there are lads out there heating butter knives on a hot plate to reflow some bit of a guitar amp.
Some .. or many will disagree with me, but I've never found added value in temperature control. I run my stick hot, but I have a bit more than half a century in knowing how a joint "feels" .. and yes, they do feel a certain way when it's all good.
If that's something you think you need, then a triac light dimmer in series with your stick? Or whack a mole on Ebay. Weller was the name .. but I'm sure it's been since sold to someone who gives less than zero f**ks to brand quality.
Another anecdote before I tap. I'm a really good welder. (We all say we are .. part of the secret handshake). But my kit is a total joke. Even I know it.
So last week I refreshed the lower 6 inches of a salt belt 17 y.o. Toyota with metal salvaged from a discarded clothes dryer. Totally wrong wire in the rig set up for quarter inch rather than paper thin sheet .. Now welding is neither brazing or solder .. but still heat and alloys and how to apply the latter. If you do your time you get the feelz. Job done.
I would personally suggest that any budding tech, or just enthusiast, come up the hard way with a dumb stick. A hot poker if you will .. I once repaired a QFP on a $6000 Minolta board with a dumb stick .. what amounted to a very hot hammer. I was shop god for a day.
All that said .. if you're having issues. I've had a few rolls of janky solder the last few years. At one point I thought that I may have had a stroke. What? I forgot how to solder since 1973? Nah .. just crap alloy.
Hope I was somewhat helpful.