From its datasheet, relay is G6Y-2P, 12V coil, 16.7mA, 720Ω
So I want 1.67mA into the base when the control line goes to 3V?
The indicator LED wants 1mA to light up. I'll have to get maths head on.
So R1 must supply 2.67mA, and in fact delete R2 altogether?
I'm getting R1 = 112.36Ω, seems low?