I suspect that you're still not giving us a full description of your circuit and mechanism. I say this because you say it has limit switches.
A few things to note about limit switches:
(1) They're typically low demand micro-switches.
(2) They typically control the coil or control circuit of SS & electromechanical power relays.
(3) They usually don't carry the motor current except for very small motors.
(4) Their typical use is to limit a mechanism's travel and only override said limit if and when the user has initiated a travel in the opposite direction.
With keeping number (4) in mind this begs the following question that only makes sense of this entire thread if your answer is yes.
Does your system currently employ a manual Forward / Reverse switch or switches?
Regarding a suitable Stepper Relay:
AK provided a link to Digikey that shows a very clear photo of one. I provided a hyperlink to AK's post in my last reply. Why search any further?
Random thoughts:
I find great joy in deciphering the never ending, ceaseless, interminable, incessant, "Guess what the f!ck I'm doing", posts. In fact they're more fun than having a root canal or a vasectomy without anesthetic!
Request:
Post as many sharp photos of your contraption as you can. Doing so will probably eliminate a lot of guesswork.
Chris