Replacing the motor means making a whole new device which I could do but if I could just get the speed slower this mod is ready to go.
GrandpaEd
Sometimes we just have to accept reality and bite the bullet.
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@Minder stated, it is LIKELY that your string-mower has a BLDC (BrushLess Direct Current) motor because the 8000 rpm speed of the motor you have (measured?) cannot be accomplished with a brushed DC motor with a copper commutator and carbon-based brushes. Or, if it could, it would not last very long at that speed without quickly wearing out the carbon brushes or maybe even throwing commutator segments off the armature because of excessive centrifugal forces.
The problem with speed control of a BLDC motor is electronic. The switching necessary to make the motor run depends on a feedback mechanism to determine rotor position which in turn affects the timing. Unless you are prepared to design your own BLDC controller, and have knowledge of how the existing BLDC controller works, it appears (at least to me) that you will have to replace the existing motor with a motor that operates at the speed you desire.
I doubt that "gearing down" from 8000 rpm is practical, even with multi-stage planetary gear reduction. I have had brushed DC gear-motors that used several planetary stages to achieve very low speed, but this it probably not something the average weekend garage mechanic could construct as a DIY project. My motors were also no where nearly as powerful as the motor required for a string-mower. Still, if you can, a gear reducer for your existing motor is probably the simplest solution. Good luck with that.