Look at things like this.
http://www.elixa.com/light/arrays.htm
I think these are designed as direct contact use but could you put a mix of very low power infrared leds and red ones in an above head type lamp that you could sit underneath (since light travels in a line)? Where you wouldn't be 'looking at it' but you wouldn't want it to be dangerous in case you did.
If done in a way that was diffused over lots of very low power leds that did not create any strong point source that could be bad for your eyes.
Also think for a night vision photography lamp that created a diffuse source so you don't get any harsh shadows but also so it wasn't dangerous for your eyes.
My question is just is there any low
power density per cm/inch etc. level where infrared leds are safe for your eyes from a distance of say 2 metres by using a very diffuse array? Or are they always just too unsafe and too risky for your eyes even at low power levels per area unit.