Hi Adverse,
What are you going to use the fan for? If it is not near a radio, TV or not inside a computer, its ground wire doesn't have to be connected.
It is good that its voltage requirement is marked. Just connect it to 12V, with the red wire as positive and the black to negative. If it runs backwards, reverse the wires.
It will probably draw 100mA at 12V, although its manufacturer doesn't say, that's what other manufacturers say for their similar size fans. It would be good to power it from a regulated adapter whose voltage doesn't change. If you use a cheap adapter, its voltage changes with loading. Use a 10V DC cheap adapter rated at 400mA or 500mA. With the 100mA fan its voltage will be about 12V.
To control the speed a variable resistor will be large, expensive, get hot and probably burn out soon. You probably don't need such fine control of the speed, just low, medium and maximum is probably OK. Then you just need a 4-position switch and 2 resistors. The switch would connect one 100 ohm/1W resistor in series with the fan for medium speed and two resistors for low speed. No connection is OFF and direct connection is max.
If a 4-position switch is too expensive, use two cheap on-off switches and one resistor. One switch is for on and off and the other switch controls low or max speed.