What type of latching relay? One with two coils (one for Set and the other for Reset) or one with a single coil (energised with one polarity current for Set and the opposite polarity for Reset)?
As a side issue, why do you have all the coils commoned as shown in the schematic? That bottom left diode could get overloaded if energised by more than one coil at a time.
Good luck finding one. But did you read the legality warning in post #3 ? Illegal acts are contrary to the site's Terms & Conditions which you signed up to.
I recall the Daleks shouting something similar.:) But perhaps mankind will be exterminated, if AI ever gets control of critical infrastructure systems or weapons.
Do you have a schematic for your CDI ignition module?
Have you checked with your insurer that your proposed modification won't invalidae your insurance cover?
What is the transformer core material?
Are you sure the coil phase relationship is correct, to ensure oscillation?
Are you aware the secondary is not mains-isolated, so there is a shock risk?
The circuit is a classic "Royer oscillator". Since its operation is very dependent on the saturation characteristics of the transformer core, I'd be surprised if you could find a simple equation for calculating oscillation frequency.