Hi Ryan,
Due to a severe impedance mismatch, your IR receiver has an enormous loss.
R1 is the high value of 470k so that the phototransistor has a high gain. But the value of R2 is so low at only 1k that the output of the phototransistor is nearly shorted.
The opamp should be a type that works well at 38kHz, be in a non-inverting configuration so that its input bias resistor can be as high as 2.2M so the phototransistor's high impedance output is not loaded down. To avoid having a negative supply, the opamp should be biased to half-supply. The opamp can have as much gain as you want and can feed a passive AM detector diode or an active one that uses an opamp.
Your choice of using AM instead of FM for modulation means that your receiver will pickup mains hum from incandescent and fluorescent lights.