I forgot to mention the parts i have.
5mm IR receiver
http://jaycar.com.au/productView.asp?ID=ZD1952&CATID=33&form=CAT&SUBCATID=245
2x JW1FH-DC12V - 12v- 10A/240v RELAY
http://cnpdf.alldatasheet.com/datasheet-pdf/view/167869/NAIS/JW1FSN-DC12V.html
2x 12V SPDT - 10A / 240v - RELAY
http://jaycar.com.au/productView.asp?ID=SY4050&CATID=28&form=CAT&SUBCATID=754
I also have a mini remote that off a different old stereo i would like to use, i dont know how to use it on this unit im going to build though, or i could just make a new remote and pout in a small box.
Any help or schematics would be appreciated.
Thanks